When I was a child the first thing that stood out for me was that I could see people my friends could not see. It was so normal and natural like it is walking down the street and seeing people walk past, you may not know but you know seeing strangers does not freak you out. We class it as normal because we are all physical take the physical away we think the person disappears and vanishes. After all without a physical body how do we exist?
Considering I was born with bad eyes I did not hear I could only see what is termed dead people. At first it was like a silent movie I could see them and say how they looked etc but that was it. How do I communicate with them if I only see and cannot hear? Back then I did not know about telepathy being so young, so they would show me images it’s a bit like autocue or flash cards and symbols. Once I had got my head around telepathy this made communication much easier.
I was not scared its only when things happened that I did not understand that I would get a bit on edge. Once I had grasped how they communicate and what things mean it became a way of life. I grew up feeling safe with them in my life and they looked out for me more than humans had at times. When I talk to them I feel understood and not judged and loved and accepted. It’s the physical side that I have found harder as there is this subliminal underlining fight and ego of having to over explain yourself to be understood.
For the first 10 years I kept to how it is recognized here of face value, which is what I refer to the surface of every day life. I kept it simple and did not go too deep, and continued contacting people that had passed in the way people had understood and accepted. The only problem I had is that I did not give names, as my character comes in to play too. I am not a name or label person as I have trouble remembering names. A name to me does not define a person as this gives very little core information. I want to know the person the content the details which you do not get from a name. So I made up for my absent name giving to give detail about the person and their personality.
When I was in my 30s this way of doing readings changed for me, as I felt there was something missing just sticking to this way of doing a reading. I thought ok it may have been needed once upon a time to prove life after death, but these days with films like sixth sense etc if you believe in it you do, if not your just not going to regardless of the way it is done. So I made the decision to change things around, instead of contacting them to prove life after death, I am connecting with them to share about life. So you’re loved ones have a voice to talk about you and so it is all about you. Obviously I still do the original way of doing readings if it is necessary for someone, say if someone wants to know their loved one is ok if they have just passed.
I wanted readings to change from proving in contact, to be a gift of guidance and love which gives you connection. So you know the message you get in your reading is coming from those that love and care about you. With the information shared you will know they know what is going on in your life and support you. You will feel the connection through the love of life and not death. We are all in life together and if you’re loved ones can offer you guidance in your life. Which makes your life feel less stressful and more manageable, and then your reading benefits you and makes you feel happier. I feel readings should help uplift and support you and give you the confirmation that the love you share continues. The connection never breaks; giving them a chance to talk about you personally gives you feelings of love and a renewed strength to face your life in an understanding way if it was confusing before. About 4 years ago I noticed we all had a core, a deep down section, our deep down thoughts. Its our secret place within ourselves I guess you could say.
So noticing the value of the core I chose then to concentrate on the core in a reading, no matter how scary or confusing or a mess the surface looks, the core holds the true reflection, as fear does not enter the core. So core readings became my way, so you had a chance in your reading to see your true deep down reflection the gold deep down inside of you. The surface can be all it wants to be and changes all the time, yet the core is your main stay. We tend to focus on the surface as our main stay and wonder why it gets pulled beneath our feet. If the type of readings that I do opens up your mind to understanding the difference between surface and core then you will have more options.
This is the example I give people about surface, if a group of friends are together and in the group they are saying to a friend oh yes we love your new dress its amazing. Only for two of the friends to walk away from the group and say what did you really think of it? I thought it was shit, so the surface is not always honest it can people please and say what it wants. Where as the core truth in this situation is you did not like it but felt you could not say how you really felt.
So I do not waste time on the surface, I cut straight through it to get to the core. Getting to the point, the bulls eye of the situation. I do not people please I pass on messages that I trust from the core a place of love and respect. I use metaphors a lot during a reading to explain things, so yes I am quirky and maybe I am different in the way I chose to do readings. But it is my service to you, I am not a business, a conveyor belt type of person, I am doing the best I can from a place of care and love. Yes I charge for readings, which took me years to get my head around because it is my job. Why should my job be judged any different from any job, it comes from a place of quality and passion no different to a musician or artist or hairdresser.
Everyone’s job is a gift and it is a personal journey how you choose to share it, labeling or tarnishing with the same brush has no benefit to anyone. I know myself enough why I work and why I value my work, because I know my depth and morals and meaning. I don’t take doing this job and kind of work lightly, as I am dealing with people’s lives, which are precious. After 48 years of experience it’s been a long journey of discovery, a journey I am still learning. This is not just it I know that. Please before you book a reading research the person, find out how they work, so you understand and know what to expect.
I always ask people to research me before booking, as I may not be what they are looking for. I am not a fortune- teller; I am not a surface quick fix person. I am a deep person that likes to give you the time you need. You may not always get what you expect but I trust you get what you need. After all there are many restaurants to choose from you go with what suits you.
So this is the gist of how I do readings, I do not have a magic wand I just have a voice and a connection to see the core in you. When I start a reading I do not look at the client much as I am visual, so I am looking at what I am being shown. Say you want me to tune in to the heading relationships, I stare in front of me, which is like watching a film, and what ever I am shown I tell you. It is nothing scary or spooky, it’s chatting about your life.
Your life is not scary you own it and know it, its just handy to have guidance sometimes to confirm what you know.
Much love to you Dee xx