We are encouraged to separate everything from the time of our birth, during pregnancy we are connected via the cord, after birth we are separated. We become an individual by being given a name, as labels are recognized as a way of navigating around. After all if we need anything we just need a label or a heading as an example doctor, gym, shops etc. once we have a label this takes us into the door way of choice, after all there are many cooks, artists, musicians and the list can go on. Headings and labels are useful when we want to find something. The other thing that comes with labels is judgment so if someone did not like what they experienced there judgment could put others off from experiencing it.
How much we follow and go on other people’s advice depends on how much we value and trust ourselves enough to face experiences no matter how many people have tried them before us. Our experiences in life are unique even though we are connected to everyone and everything around us. If you do not believe me then ask yourself how do trends come about? From the amazing product or is it because so and so has it so I have got to have it too. Are we even aware how much we copy or follow others in the must have things we do, after all connection is like a powerful magnet which is why big businesses use subliminal advertising.
The power of the mind, or power of thought suggestion or are we just too scared to be left out. After all the universe does not know separation so deep down inside we know this as it is our natural state, that maybe big businesses know about this too. Look over history and see how advertising has encouraged us to have the next new gadget. Or how our friends sell things to us before we have checked it out by chance on our own. How often do we go blindly so to speak into the world and just check things out without having any prior idea about it or knowledge. Or are you even aware how much you buy is from auto- pilot rather than self – connection. Example I must have these shoes they are the in thing everyone is wearing them, so you buy them and to your horror they kill your feet. Do you decide actually they hurt way too much to wear or do you suffer the pain to just fit in.
I am sure we all have at some point gone through some amount of pain, as they say no pain no gain. So there is no loser’s then only gain even if at times we experience pain with our choices. At times we go blank if we are caught on the spot and asked something like what do you want to eat and you have not got a clue. So you reply anything I am not bothered what are you having? Even if you have the same and don’t like it you may eat it all not being beaten by it or pick at it and make some kind of excuse, after all its only money.
Connection whether we understand it or not is our foundation and backdrop to everything that we do. Even when we are on our own we will be connecting to something on our phones. Even if you travel on your own you will connect to other people and places around you. If we see the world as separate we are forgetting our connection to life. We view the world through point A to point B etc. As if the space between these points are separate, yet they are connected because if they where not connected how would you get from point A to point B. You may have been given a name at birth yet your surname will be the same as the rest of your family. Connection is everywhere and the key that opens and shuts doors, that creates waves of change and introduces trends and must haves. To stand out and be different does not always fit in, yet to be well known and stand out is a must have connection. If you value your self as much as you value the connections you have in your life then you would walk side by side next to everyone. If you place connections above you or on a pedestal then you have forgotten your own connection with yourself and that everyone is equal.
You are the world and the universe through the connection that you are, you will not be forgotten or lost or less important unless you judge yourself to be so. You experience everything that you wish and connect to the places and people that will bring you those experiences. Try being on your own, its hard to find privacy at times without a text alert or the phone rings. Even on holiday we have fun enjoying other peoples company regardless if we never see them again. In that moment connection brings you what you need.
Trying to understand life from the view of separation is like saying you do not exist. You know you exist which is why you have choice. We are connected to the universal web although we can enjoy our own personal space within that web. Like everyone has their own gadget in which to access the computer web, there is not just one computer we can use in which to gain access we have many options and choices. Like we are individually and collectively connecting up and tuning in all the time its just much bigger the universal web.
You may get caught up with other people or you may get caught up in yourself. There is no right or wrong way, there is no blame, it all comes back to the self on what we choose to experience by the connections we access. So the next time you feel left out or not part of the group remember you’re always connected to the universe. It does not matter whether you are conscious of it or not, or ignore it or aware, connection is your core. No one can take this away from you, as you are not reliant on others for connection as it is your natural state. No fear of loss as you do not have to pay for it, or upgrade it, as there are no expectations or judgment, connection gives you the freedom to explore and be you.
Connection is your universal credit card with no limits as it is infinite; it is up to you what you experience through your magnetic core in you. You attract what you wish no matter status or size and shape or form. Connection flows through you, which gives you the power to face what ever you have chosen.
Understanding the power of your connection gives you knowledge and wisdom to realize how separation is an illusion.
Much love to you Dee xx