Fear is so powerful because we fear death and dying.
Fear has to stem from somewhere and our primitive memory before we had materialism would have been survival.
Yet what are we trying to survive, we all think death comes whether we choose to let go or we are encouraged to let go of our physical body. Although what we believe in passed what we call death is a personal thing. Death is a mystery and may scare the death out of us. Why are we scared of death is because we can see up to a point that the physical body dies.
We see ourselves as alive due to the physical body. Yet if we did not see or hear, or feel or sense or taste would that mean we are dead or alive. As the physical body would still be alive it just would not be doing very much it would be dormant. So by having senses makes the physical body come to life. Yet what part of the body does our senses reside in, the brain or heart or skin and bones? I would humbly say every single cell of you. After all you have heard that amputees still feel their limb, which is called a phantom limb. So where do these senses come from when the physical limb no longer exists. The same could be said for us, that when we let go of our physical body we become a phantom body that continues and still exists. Just because you cannot see it and touch it does not mean it does not exist, like the amputee will tell you that what they feel is real.
Maybe there is value in the meaning of phantom, not in a scary way but in helping us to understand how we still continue past death and in truth death does not exist. Or are we too scared to believe we are infinite, would that throw a spanner in the works for this life experience and open up too much which will have a ripple effect on this life.
Lots of ways we can look at this, which gives us many probabilities and answers and outcomes.
For those who have had an OBE or NDE then you will have experienced there is a bigger picture to life. I have seen my husband’s (phantom) energy body as well as his physical body at the same time. My daughter has seen me next to her while she is in bed to talk to her, which was not my physical body that was asleep in my bed at the time. So if we where just our physical bodies how is it our loved ones can see both our bodies that we have. Not everything can be blamed on a dream or imagination.
If we remembered how life continues and that there is nothing to fear or be scared off because we are not trying to survive death. Death does not exist unless you wish to believe it does. I just see death as the route cause of fear to survive, as we have been taught in religion about death. To repent as we are sinful and will go to hell rather than heaven when we die. You are as much as dead living in your physical bodies now, so what are you waiting for. Is this what death feels like to you?
I have spoke to children before they are born, I have seen what it is like in the womb, and I have been shown how people have passed and how they continue to live. I have been shown passed lives and have seen many things in the universe. I have not been scared to visit many of life’s experiences whether they are on my own path or someone else’s. I have observed other peoples life’s so I understand more about life on earth and why we bother to experience more than what we have.
Am I afraid to die or put another way to let go of this physical overcoat of a body? No I am not, as in my humble observation through what I have experienced shows me life is a bigger picture, much bigger than earth. Once you free yourself from the limitations and fears of earth you enter free space of freedom. We all know how powerful energy is, whether a lightning bolt or electrical charge of some kind. Energy produces natural phenomena of earthquakes and volcanoes to odd unexplainable events that have been documented through history.
What will I miss about earth when I step out of this physical over coat? It is more what I won’t miss. I wont miss some aspects of the physical body; I will not miss the challenges of trying to communicate to people in an all-knowing way rather than on a judgmental level. Judgment is a factor here and in some ways becomes a way of life. Our natural state and where we have come from has pure acceptance so to live in such an unnatural way leaves us battling with our way of life even if on a subconscious level.
Deep down how naturally happy are you, deep down how much fun do you have by just being in your own company. How content are you with you? I see a lot of how to become happy in your own skin. One procedure leads to another. How satisfied do we feel inside is it enough or do we crave for more. We are after all infinite beings with no end, is this why we crave more and not less? To fill us up as we have a long life to live that continues.
A lot of what we crave and hold on to we cannot take with us when we let go of our physical bodies. Our material physical goods, clothes, money, food, and wealth on any physical level is handed down and left to your loved ones. So death holds a dilemma we have to hold on to our youth so we can enjoy our wealth for as long as we can. What we do take with us is our essence, our character and personalities our wealth of love and joy, which brought us the experiences that we have.
How much do we value when someone we love has passed, what is it we hold on to from him or her. Houses and money get passed down some may be held on to some sold on. Their belongings are given away and few things may be kept. On the whole what we hold onto is our memories with that person and our photos with them that we put in frames. We have ourselves that we rely on to remember so our memories stay with us. Nothing or no one gets forgotten, as the bond you have is a continuous connection of love. Love does not have a price tag it is infinite that never wears out as it continues and stays with you always.
Love is a feeling an emotion which connects you to life whether you see it or not or hold it in your hand or not. The presence of a loved one is always around you to guide and support you. The more you are in tune with your feelings the stronger you feel the connection, you are the telephone line to everyone, it depends if you hang up or are off the hook.
Does death exist depends on what you want to believe or fear. Why do we not have proof passed death? We do have proof but it is personal to you, it is at times subtle and can be a hunch or a feeling. Sometimes it can be physical, I have been told that someone I have known has passed because they have told me themselves before I have been physical told.
I cant prove it I can only share it as it is my word against what is believable. My job is not to prove life after death, as death does not exist. I choose to help people understand life’s bigger picture by opening up your own mind about life. A closed book is a closed book you only see the front cover. It is not until you open up the book of life do you see its magic and meaning.
What do I fear I try to remind myself nothing, as nothing can harm me, as everything is a continuous experience? Do I fear death no I do not, I see death as stepping out of my clothes. To continue a life I infinitely have as we all do. What can be fearful is pain, pain and hurting is what is feared. Yet we have the choice to let go off pain at any traumatic event. You hear people not remembering an accident and only remember events leading up to an accident or after in hospital. We have a safety cut out so we only experience the amount of pain that we wish to experience. We are in control more than we remember, we having nothing to fear for you are safe in your own hands.
Life continues no matter what you do or not believe.
Your choice is what you choose to fear.
Find out for yourself by opening the book of life in you and see for yourself.
I just like to share no matter how random or odd it sounds, I have no preference on how I am taken at face value or too deep. Life reflects what we are willing to see.
Enjoy life and allow you to feel free in you rather than fear in you.
Much love to you Dee xxx