At times life throws down the why me card…why the bird got you out of the group your standing with to poop on. How did I manage to tread in that dog poop, yet these moments we call them lucky! How, so make a wish? I beg to differ as its messy and stinks, its only lucky for the people around you that it missed.
You are in class and the teacher wants a volunteer and you get picked, a why me moment. When we want to get picked and we have our arm raised so high that it’s nearly out of its socket in the hope of getting picked. This is a why me why didn’t I get picked moment.
The why card gets played quite a lot in life, why me is a case of why not you?
We are all in life together we all have the same chance as anyone else, yet we get disheartened and give up on ourselves because we either do not believe in ourselves enough, or we look at the shit upon moments and think we will always stink at something.
STOP right now give you a break.
I ask you this what do you see in you? Do you even observe you much? Do you know what you enjoy? If we do not pay much attention to ourselves then we slip between the why me cards that fall. We fall into life by chance or luck or by being in the wrong place or right place at any given time. We may not be present and just let each day roll into the next not giving it much thought.
Why me moments maybe a wake up call to get our attention, to alert us that life needs a lift or a shake up and change. Same old is good but variety is lacking as repeating gets stale when we keep to ground hog day. Life wants us to have fun, to question things and to keep us on our toes. Life does not want us to be bored. Yet why me moments can be uplifting and a prize as well as stinky from the gift of a bird.
How we position ourselves in life brings it purpose or if we go along in life we allow moments to take us by surprise. We all share life, we all hold our own cards to our next move, we all lay what we wish and take what we want. Why me is for everyone it does not matter what prize you get or what you think you lose. Some win amazing prizes I have won toilet rolls. Everything is a gift it depends how much we value it. Even toilet rolls are gold when your stuck out in a field, depends what situation your in.
Why me moments alert us so we do not forget that we share life with everyone and that we are not alone. How we manage and enjoy sharing life with everyone depends on how connected or separated we think we are. I view life as teamwork otherwise we would not have synchronicity. Separation cuts us off from being in the most beneficial position. Not just from the viewpoint of myself, but ourselves….OUR-is the teamwork SELVES- is our individuality connected.
Embrace why me moments as they are the flag that gets your attention. So your life benefits you with many memorable experiences.
Much Love to You